So Much Has Happen...

This weekend was as exciting as non-exciting can get. 

I was actually with my dad this weekend, which most of the time I don't like because where ever we go I feel out of my element. I don't know...I don't really understand it. Anteewayys. I have to rewind to about three weeks ago. 

My aunt had picked me up from my school's skating party. Which we have every year after picture day. She was taking me to meet my dad for a football game. I ABSOLUTELY ADORE FOOTBALL. So...I was sitting there. A situation where I feel out of my element. And I hear my dad say "Theres that boy that we are trying to set you up with". WHO FORGOT TO TELL ME THIS? 

First of all I looked a mess. I wasn't prepared for this. My dad is the one who is always threatning every boy he sees. Literally. I had no clue what to do...so I kinda just sat there while he waved at me. Oh my I need help.

So...back to the present-ish time. 

I went to a another football game on Saturday, which was a little kids game. Like 10 year olds...so nevermind. I told you I LOVE football so I never deny the chance to go to a game. Now..me thinking this was a game where 10 year olds are playing, they normally aren't to exciting...which means no cute boys. So..my guard was completely down. Then I hear my dad..who was about 10 feet away from me, say, "Where is he?" I automatically freak out because I know exactly who he is talking about and this was the worst moment ever because this was the second time he just popped up at this random time. Sad to say he was scared to talk to me. The second time that happened to me this year. He'll come around.

But until then. 

I am not letting my guard down again until I'm absolutely sure I'm safe.

So..school had started.

Enough Said.

Its actually not that bad. There is no continuing drama, but I did lose a best friend. She is now just a friend, which kinda sucks. 

Anyway...its story time :)

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I have this friend...who is desperate for a boyfriend. I think everyone goes through it, even I have been through it. I just feel so bad for her because: 1) She really isn't mature enough to be in the type of boyfriend-girlfriend relationship that she wants. 2) When she likes a boy she never takes my advice to talk to him.(she even had me talk to "him" once for her and that totally didn't work out) 3) She makes it so obvious that she is desperate, and I know that boys catch on to that. I just don't know what to do. It seems that I am the one that people lean on for help. And with her, if I needed advice like this, there is no way she would make even an effort to help me. So...I question why I try. It actually stresses me out.

Thats also a reason that I am glad school started. At our school there aren't many relationships. As of right now..none. And when there is a relationship, the whole school knows. There are about 300 kids at my school, so it makes sense. Us being the eight graders, we basically rule the school. (hahaha do people still say that?). Relationships in our class DO NOT HAPPEN. That is because there are not enough boys for girls, and our boys are immature. So we seek relationships outside of school. So..during the school year I bring on the stress. So my mind can be taken off everything else. :|

TRYING TO BE POSITIVE HERE!

Another story about how boys can ruin ones day. or week. or month.

So this guy starts talking to my friend on facebook. And I get the total FREAK ALERT feeling. But he IS our age...lives in our city..and another one of my friends knew him from pre-school. He still seemed like the total player. Or atleast wannabe player. They start talking..and she gets interested.

REASON WHY THAT WAS A TOTAL MISTAKE:


Never get interested in someone like this..someone that says that they are really crazy about you when you don't really even know them. The probability is that they tell the same things to other girls.
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My friend acts like she has boy experience...and has been through alot with them. But she has never had a boyfriend in her life. Niether have I...but I have experience with alot of boys...i grew up with two older step brothers who has ALOT of friends. I have been through hell with those boys. ANYWAY back to my story :(.

She really doesn't realize what she is getting herself into..so she starts texting him..which goes on for weeks. I added him on facebook...and he IMs me..asking for my number and all this stuff..he was interested, but I gave him the blind turndown (when you turn them down, but don't make it so obvious that you are turning them down). maybe it was more like a shutdown.
I didn't tell her though..knowing that she wouldn't understand.

Now she is obsessed with him. A guy she doesn't know. And she has made herself depressed because he is now taken. REALLY?!? He is really nothing to worry about. He isn't even that cute..the only atractive part of him is his 8 pack....(ive seen pictures.)

I have no clue what to do but leave this alone. I've tried to tell her but she won't believe me. She even asked me if I thought she (his girlfriend) was pretty. I didn't lie..and i said yes. She kinda needs to get over this because its making me sick.

Ok..so the other day :/ (well actually last month)

I will try to make this short..so some parts won't be included.

We (me and two friends) were at my friend's church for a festival. There were 3 boys there around our age..and one she liked. SO we do what most girls do.

THE AVOID AND WATCH

You keep and eye out for them...and sometimes just checking them out..but avoid being in the same room as them.

YOU CANT:

-eat

-get in trouble

-trip

-cry

-sneeze

-or anything else that may lead to something super embarrassing.

Its pretty tough, but luckily comes naturally to most girls.

Then while we were in the gym (her church is also a school). We were talking and decided that we were going to go walking around the school. My friends were playing around in a hallway..when we hear the boys are in the gym. So eventually we end up going in there. 

THEN ITS RAINING

My hair had just been done..so i couldn't go out there...their hair had just been done too..but they had jackets. So they leave me in the gym (no wonder we aren't such best friends anymore). I decided to just sit there...but then it got akward so i went to go look for them. I walk out into the hallway and call in the direction that they are in...but..the boy is fallowing me. And he says "My friend in there likes you..can you go talk to him?" So i freak out and say.."Hold on". My friend  likes him..and i'm not the man stealer type. 

So i just moped back in the gym...and here my "best" friends come through the door. *by now im thinking that they are the worst friends ever* And i told them what happen..and she was mad. 

Then they decide that they want me to like him..so they keep telling me to give him a hug and get his number. 

WHAT THE HECK. I THOUGHT U LIKED HIM!.

I was totally willing to not like him..because i didn't. He wasn't cute..to me atleast...but they kept nagging me about all thats happening..and that i should talk to him. I didn't want to hurt her feelings..and i couldn't tell what to do. 

So i get his number with no plans to use it...and when i walk outside to them..they were talking about me..and it was clear. For the rest of the day thats all she talked about...is me and him, who i don't know, don't like, and don't plan to call (hope its not to harsh). And now all she does is make fun of me with him. I honestly don't know what to do..but i can see this friendship is going downhill, with both friends.